CONTEMPORARY PARENTING: A BLESSING OR A CURSE

Anuma Maxwell -

 CONTEMPORARY PARENTING: A BLESSING OR A CURSE


"It goes more than giving birth, but training them well."


I remember those days while growing up, you dare not come home after being disciplined at school for unacceptable behavior to report to your parents, trust me, you are having a triple anointing of such. You eat whatever is set before you, strict discipline was upheld, whether we liked it or not, it has gone a long way in helping us stay sane in this insane world.

But then, it is disheartening that the so-called generation that were brought up with an high level of discipline won't reciprocate such goodness, only to bring up Children that are soon becoming a burden to the society.

The problem of the society is a foundational factor of the family which is the smallest unit of the society. Where the family goes wrong, the society would eventually be the end product and bear the consequences.

A child that is ill-trained at home, comes to school to exhibit the fruit of his/her parent's labour, they are disciplined, only for the parents to come and cause uproar. Wow! You see parents conveniently dress their young ones indecently all in the name of fashion, bleaching creams are introduced at a very early age. The height of it and the most sensitive part is how parents encourage crime these days. Parental irresponsibility at its peak. The biblical story of Eli comes to mind.

The society is fast becoming a dumping ground for lawless Children. You would do humanity a great favour if you would just stay celibate; rather than have Children that will become problematic in the future.

It goes more than giving birth, but training them well.

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